Showing posts with label New York. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New York. Show all posts

Rainbow Love!

Better known as 'The Pro-Sindhi Post!'

Ever since my Sindhi’s in a Bubble piece, I’ve been crowned an Anti-Sindhi. I often hear from friends that people find/found my piece rather insulting and apparently, some even felt ‘betrayed’. I don’t feel the need to sit and justify my piece. It’s my blog and I’ll write what I want to (yes, I’m a five-year-old that way). But to sit and call me “Anti-Sindhi”, now that’s unfair. In fact, I’m a proud Sindhi. If you know me well, you know I love my heritage heaps; I’m all about Sindhi power. But I’m not going to sit here and stand by those who are participating in the ho-hum stereotyped way of Sindhi living. We’re in 2011 for goodness sake! If you’re still looking to conform and live a life of orthodoxy, then yes, please spare me from loving you.

However, today I stand prouder than ever because a fabulous story I came across regarding two amazing Sindhis who dared to be different. While I regularly hear of dreadful stories where a gay Indian man will marry an innocent Indian woman all because he’s too scared to come out, here’s a gay couple who aren’t scared to be honest about their relationship and go on to even legally commit to one another. And they just happen to be Sindhi. New Yorkers Navin Manglani and Navin Dargani were married amongst hundreds in New York City this July to receive recognition of their relationship after the same sex marriage law passed in the state (Rediff.com). The couple came out in full tashan as their dressed the part and happily indulged in holy matrimony.

Now this is when I really feel like a proud Sindhi. I dread to question how many gay Sindhi men are out there but are too scared of our rather conservative society; yes, I’m using a diplomatic word, trust me I’d much rather choose a harsher word. And this is the same in most conformist societies. Such men live a closeted life where they have a picture perfect life: wife, kids, and the works. But the reality is that they live a dual existence. In the case of Navin and Navin, they just chose to be non-conformers and honest (India Abroad).

When I talk of a new generation of Sindhis, this is exactly what I’m talking about; people who are independent in their thinking and living, who aren’t scared to be different and who are definitely not worried about what people will say. You really have to hand it to these lads. It can’t have been easy for them on any level.

I realized today, as community, if one person defies the status quo, it almost opens a floodgate for others to follow in queue. Whether its divorce (now perhaps too common) or marrying outside our community/culture, its taken time, but we’ve managed to accept these otherwise too modern ways of life. Perhaps what Navin and Navin have done is just open yet another door.

I don’t think they were looking for approval from anyone with regards to their relationship though. Either way, I cannot be happier for these gentlemen. Defying the status quo is what I’m all about and it’s great to see a lot more who are willing to say, “Screw you society!”

Here’s wishing you both a lifetime of happiness and love. More power to you gentlemen!

The One Where I Heart New York and IPL Drama


I love New York. Whats not to love? The busy streets, the fast pace, the insane partying, the fabulous life. I heart heart heart New York. But then, all good things must come to an end and I must head back west to suburban California where at 10 p.m. all you hear is the occasional fire siren and not the jarring music in the Meat Packing district. It's so incredible how all the different states in the U.S. can be so varied in life and culture. Manhattan is perhaps the most diverse. A single island houses people of all origins and cultures, filled with an incredible sights, and a quick lifestyle. Within a heartbeat you can be downtown dancing at a club and then head on uptown to an upscale Upper East Side stylish pad. Either way, Manhattan has an vibe that cannot be imitated or copied. It makes me realize how much of a city girl I am, how I need to be surrounded by noise and shor instead of a small city and mountains. I need to be running around, taking subways, making frantic calls on my cell, utilizing my BlackBerry to the maximum and being 26! Definitely more NYC on the travel list for me this year. New York New York New York - I love it!

On the otherhand, Shah Rukh Khan never fails to disappoint me more and more on a daily basis. This time, he has gone ahead and let the Australians dominate the Knight Riders. If rumors and newspapers are to be believed, the Australian players have made some some racial remarks towards the Indian players (?) Uhhh.... hello? Am I the only person who thinks this is incredibly silly? How can you discriminate in an INDIAN Premiere League? That is simply absurd. And of course, SRK refuses to comment. Duh! He has no say regarding his team who have no respect for him. Clearly, SRK does not know cricket and he should probably not dabble in it for a while.


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Delhi 6 Review

By Roshni Mulchandani

Delhi ka Thug, Delhi Express, Delhi Darbar and now Delhi 6. The former three are oldies which include the grand city as a character within their plot. In more recent times, Delhi has been associated very closely with one popular neighborhood known to its audiences as Chandni Chowk. However, there is more to the colonial metropolis that meets the eye. As a visitor, it would be foolish not to visit Chandni Chowk simply for its beautiful galli’s, great shopping, tasty paranthas and for the mere fact that it is Bollywood’s favorite chowk. The area code, Delhi 6 actually lies in this very area which is where Rakesh OmPrakash Mehra’s new extravaganza “Delhi 6” begins and ends. Post Rang De Basanti, Mehra had taken a sabbatical to come back with his new flick starring Abhishek Bachchan and Sonam Kapoor in never before seen avatars. Read on to see if Delhi 6 is bigger and bolder than Mehra’s RDB or not.

Welcome to Delhi! NRI return, half Hindu-half Muslim, Roshan Mehra (Abhishek Bachchan) arrives in “Dilli” to drop off his ailing grandmother (Waheeda Rahman) who expresses her wish to breathe her last breath back in India. Young Roshan, who has had very little exposure to the Eastern culture, is mesmerized by his heritage, love and affection he receives from his new found relatives and friends which he constantly captures on his cell phone. He bumps into young and vivacious Bittu (Sonam Kapoor), an Indian idol wannabe who is looking for ways to escape the arranged marriage syndrome. While the duo sing and romance on the terrace of their homes which are literally a hop skip and jump away, Mehra is also introduced to a multitude of interesting neighboring characters: a local loan shark (Prem Chopra); his leachy debtor (Cyrus Sahukar); the bickering brothers (Om Puri and Pawan Malhotra); the local “untouchable” prostitute (Divya Dutta); family friend (Rishi Kapoor) and lastly, the “Kaala Bandar” (Black Monkey) who has been terrorizing the area. Add to this collection of interesting personalities, a crazy beggar and a corrupt police cop and you’ve pretty much met the whole neighborhood. After the meet and greet session is over, the story finally begins. The popular Kaala Bandar causes havoc in the lanes of Chandni Chowk and the residents decide to get together to rid their neighborhood of him. When the question of whether the monkey is Hindu or Muslim arises, members of the respective communities come to their defense quickly. The movie goes on to show the divide that still exists today between the Hindu and Muslim communities, between families and between political groups. As Roshan attempts to dissect and digest the manner in which India works, he decides the only way to rid the monkey problem is to take it on himself.

Critically speaking, the movie is based on a number of connotations the average moviegoer may have a hard time understanding. The “divide” concept for example does not only happen on a larger level but at a smaller one too. The character of Bachchan cannot understand why Dutta is considered an untouchable; he cannot fathom why a Kapoor is sheltered when she wants to fly like Masakali the dove, and lastly is unable to gather why the eccentric brothers have a wall in their own house while their wives chatter through a missing brick in the wall. While these ideas are all very fascinating, it does take some time for the audience member to identify the ideology behind each situation and related it to Mehra’s division concept. Mehra along with Prashoon Joshi have come together and thought of a script that is quite honestly too hard to comprehend or appreciate. It begins at slow pace only to get slower and never really pick up. The love story is stale and while the cast and crew have chattered nonstop about the “great chemistry” between Bachchan and Kapoor, it does not seem to flutter an eyelash. A lot of the mini-plots in the movie only add confusion and extra time to the screenplay.

A.R. Rahman is top notch with his musical score in Delhi 6 post Slumdog Millionaire. Without a doubt, it is the highlight of the film. While Joshi should be weary of his script, his lyric writing for the movie is worthy of accolade. Choreography is fabulous too with Masakali taking the crown on this one. While the script is weak, the sights are simply marvelous. Never has Delhi looked so enticing and beautiful. The busy lanes, the jalebi’s, Jama Masjid have all been seized by Binod Pradhan’s camera in most stunning of ways. This may one of the few reasons to buy a ticket for Delhi 6.

Abhishek Bachchan does an apt job as the fascinated foreign return who sees the beauty in the flaws of his homeland. His effort is genuine. Sonam Kapoor’s role was one to be watched out for and she falls flat on her face with this one. In fact, she has a very short role in the film. Her sequences where is apparently “flirting” with Bachchan look over the top. Performance wise the applause for this one goes to all the supporting actors. Om Puri is his usual best; Pawan Malhotra is excellent; Divya Dutta makes her presence known and the rest do not fade into the background. The talented Rishi Kapoor is fitting as is Waheeda Rahman. As a spoiler, Amitabh Bachchan has a tiny appearance which is not spell binding towards the climax.

Expectations were running mountains high for Mehra’s latest giving. He is, no doubt, a talented and distinctive director whose experimental ways have worked in the past when he jutted out the praise worthy Rang De Basanti. On a personal note, I enjoyed many of the sequences in Delhi 6. I think it may have something to do with the fact that I haven’t been back to India in a few years and miss my country terribly. Delhi 6 is really meant for the patriotic lot who like Roshan, see the beauty in India’s blemishes only to realize like the protagonist, “India Works!”

Delhi 6 is progressive for its time but is worth a one time watch. You either love it or hate it.

Personal Notes
I had a whole bunch I wanted to add to the review but realized I would be divulging too much. Some hidden connotations to watch out include the sequence between Abhishek and Sonam where she tells Abhishek that just like the dove, who her father loves, her wings too are tied. He looks at her and tells her to untie them. Its so much like life. We all have "wings" in different forms that are tie us down. It's just a matter of untying and letting go. I also loved how the fakir runs around the lanes of Chandni Chowk carrying a mirror which depicts how instead of judging the world, we should look inside ourselves before passing judgement. Additionally, in the midst of the community heat, Abhishek does clarify that God exists within all of us too which we fail to see and understand: Ram, Allah, Jesus - they are all the same. The "Kaala Bandar" really just represents a personality trait in all of us which is pure ignorance. We shut our eyes to reality and from a monkey, he turns into a gorilla. The more we feed it with its food of oblivion, the bigger he seems to get. The dream song sequence where Abhishek sees his life in New York and Delhi mesh together is shot fabulously but I can imagine a chunk of the audiences scratching their head in confusion. I really believe it is for a much more mature audience. I thought Divya Dutta's role was awesome and even more loved it when Abhishek was in shock that she was considered an untouchable, makes her a friend and shuns the rest of the neighborhoods views. It ends on a "huh, what next" note with Abhishek saying, "And then I returned home.." Home being? Well, to the movie's defence, watching a movie is an artform. Interpret it as you want - Home is Delhi? New York or where the heart is... I think this would be a fab movie for a film apprieciation class. Excellent to dissect.

Lots of great symbolism in the movie. It needs another watch with more minute observation on my part!

"Yeh Delhi hai mere yaar...bas ishq, mohabbat, pyar..."


Photo Credit:
Anandhan Subbiah

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