Showing posts with label turning 30. Show all posts
Showing posts with label turning 30. Show all posts

When Size Doesn't Matter

You know a woman knows what she’s talking about when she can sit with full-on tashan and agree that size doesn’t matter. More recently I’ve realized this line works for most things in life with one exception: diamonds. But all this small talk brings me back to sizes. Bollywood likes it big. Huge even. Big stars, big sets, big budgets, big shosha. And yet, in more recent times, the biggest films have failed to bring in big bucks or good reviews, for that matter. In fact, it’s the smaller films which are somehow resonating with audiences and critics. And they even manage to bring in some pretty decent bucks at the box office yet again proving that size does not matter when it comes to making a good film. Some of my most favorite films thus far in 2011 have been small films. Naturally, none of them are blockbusters and only a few received critical acclaim but so what? Koi nahin.

Of course, when I tell people that I absolutely adored the simplicity behind Turning 30, they tell me that I must be insane. But really the film really bought some iffy subjects that comes to the mind of every single approaching 30-year-old girl. And if you happen to be Desi, then this film is pretty interesting.

Hostel was a film which only a handful of people even heard of, let alone watch. And this is hardly something we should be proud of. A complete social film, it follows the lives of young college-going hostel-staying students who become prey to severe ragging— a major problem which is swiftly swept under the carpet for the most part.

Anurag Kashyap is working the small films arena and how this year. After playing a fascinating and pivotal role in the very awesome Shagird, he produced the dark and dirty (but fabulous) Shaitaan before we got the über twisted That Girl in the Yellow Boots. Ask me to pick my favorite – not happening. I love em’ all!

The bromance of the year for me will definitely be Pyar Ka Punchama! The film, the cast, the music and the plot all worked together to create a young vivacious film which talks about the beautiful art of dating. Not. It in fact, looks at relationships from the perspective of three varied men who fall in love with the wrong women.

And then there are more social films. Khap talks about small societies with rigid rules while Bol looks at the importance of the boy child in modern day Pakistan. On the other hand, there is Bhindi Bazaar Inc.; a crude look at the lives of small time gangs and their desperation for power.

But this year's ace film has to be Stanley Ka Dabba. And what does the film talk about? An orphan who has a hard time with a teacher who steals the tiffins of young students. Bas. But the passion behind this film is one that is so rare that you are kept glued to film hoping, praying, wishing Stanley finally gets a tiffin good enough for his greedy teacher <insert cooing, awing and heart melting sounds here>. 

So why should you watch these small time films? Well quite simply because these films are much better than the crass we are being presented with on a weekly basis. For the most part, they house big names but deliver close to nothing. Instead, you’re better off watching films which have heart, soul and a plot which is engaging, different. Yes, they don’t have item numbers or a popular star but a good film, a small film, need not load up on big names. Size is overrated. It’s how you work it, which matters. And that goes for anything, mind you.

Turning 28!

I had seen Turning 30, when it released back in January. At that point, I couldn't connect with the film at all. Yesterday evening, Mom and I indulged in movie night which included watching Turning 30. She hadn't seen it. Strangely, for the last few days, I had been feeling rather low and down. There are a number of things that was triggering the rock-bottom feeling but when I actually sat down to think about it, it was basically a time line deficit that was causing major agony to my emotions. This time around, Turning 30 made sense.

Turning 30 follows the life of a 29-year-old Mumbaikar who has it all. Love, career and great friends. However, a few days before her 30th birthday, her life falls apart. Boyfriend decides to marry a rich youngin', heinous boss discredits her from a successful project and basically, she is dreading turning 30 amidst her turmoil. Life basically takes a real turn for her from ages 30 to 31. She realizes love is not a feeling one can toy with, stands up for herself vis-a-vis her career and in the end, walks out a bigger, better person who changes her entire outlook on life.

Ironically, I had been contemplating my life at 28 on Friday. I sat and thought to myself, "Shit! I didn't think I'd be where I am today am 28!" I had other plans which needless to say, did not materialize the way it should have but basically and I cannot do a thing about it. Let's face it, we all have tentative plans in life. I remember being 18 with big dreams. "Partner in a Law Firm, happily married with at least one kid," I wrote in my year book when asked where I saw myself in 10 years. Looking at that statement now, I can't help but laugh. How innocent it sounds now. Forget the law firm part, I knew that was out the door the minute I decided I couldn't do years of studying; far too many books for me. But the "happily married" part, I believed. And here I am at 28, single and well, happier than ever! So I've achieved one 1/4 of what I wanted to do at 18. Look I have no issues being 28 and single. As for my career, well writing has given me the greatest joy in my life.

From Turning 30, I take away a sense of "yes, I can do it!" I realized that achieving your dreams, being happy and love comes not with age but with time. In the end, it will all happen for me: career, love and marriage. It didn't happen at 27 but it will happen. Be it 28, 29 or 30; it will happen.

Turning 30!

Super excited for this one! Gul Panag in a real chick flick (read: Aisha is not!) and it looks fab! Wonder if Turning 30 is really the real deal. Ask me in 2 years; for now, check out the teaser!



January 2011 Sneak Peek!

Happy New Year Bollywood lovers! Hope you all have a completely Bollyfied year filled with lots of good films. Now, January has arrived and you can expect lots of films. There's drama, action and love all around. Take a look!

No One Killed Jessica: Rani Mukherji and Vidya Balan take on this real-life drama as they look to create fireworks with their performances. The ladies look like they are in for major awards post the release. Looks fantastic and has generated immense curiosity.

Yamla Pagla Deewana: You know you're headed for fun-ville when the entire Deol clan comes together in a comedy. Needless to say there will be a number of Singh is King moments but with Dharamendra, you can expect major laughs.

Turning 30: A real chick flick! Gul Panag features as a young 29 year old whose 30th birthday is on the verge of arrival when she realizes she has hit a real thud in her life. It looks at taboos, issues and the life of a 30 year old Mumbai girl.

Hostel: The writer of Sarkar is back with Hostel. Manish Gupta gives viewers a look into the life of a hostel livers and the intense ragging that leads to suicides in the country. It looks to create immense awareness in a more glamourous way.

Dhobi Ghat: Kiran Rao and Aamir Khan come together for the first time in Dhobi Ghat. Those who have managed to catch a preview of the film call it sheer genius. Besides the performances, the city of Mumbai has apparently been captured superbly.

Dil Toh Baccha Hai Ji: It's complicated love in Madhur Bandarkar's Dil Toh Baccha Hai Ji. And while the normally realistic director takes a break from what he knows best, he has managed to bag the likes of Ajay Devgn, Emraan Hashmi and Omi Vaidya.

So lots to watch and enjoy! Watch out as I bring you best from Bollywood throughout the year!

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